I once had a girlfriend who confided in me that she never came from sex, and that she had only had an orgasm from oral sex one time. This was shocking news to me when I heard it, mostly because … Read more →

Relationship anarchy is a lifestyle, a way of doing personal relationships. Relationship anarchy is a philosophy, specifically a philosophy of love. A relationship anarchist believes that love is abundant and infinite, that all forms of love are equal, that relationships … Read more →

I recently read “No, You Don’t Have Free Speech Online” by Susie Cagle in PS Mag. (Susie Cagle is a badass.) In the article, she asserts that because social media companies are fundamentally capitalist businesses, their interests lie in increasing … Read more →

“Damn, he’s so fine.” This girl is talking to me at the bar and she’s looking at someone behind me. I turn around to look, and, wouldn’t you know, it’s one of my former sexual partners. I smile just a … Read more →

I’m his sexual Lamborghini and he doesn’t even know it. As we’re lying here fucking in the most standard way possible, and he doesn’t know that he can ask for anything that he wants in the whole wide world right … Read more →

I look him in the eyes, and we talk about so many things, but it’s what we don’t talk about that bothers me. As we sit here and sip on our drinks, and what I’d really like to know – … Read more →